People often don't say what they mean and they often don't mean what they say

The image above is closely defined our entry for today’s topic which is about people often don't say what they mean and they often don't mean what they say.

This situation is very common to all of us as it happens to everyone for countless of times in our life. It is no doubt that most of us did encounter the same situation as in the image where instead of saying thank you to convey appreciation when someone lend their ears to listen to our problem, we tend to say sorry for taking their times because we feel guilty. We do not really mean what we said as we choose another words to replace our true feeling.

Moreover, we found that people in our culture prefer to hide their true feeling and cover it with another thing. For example, when someone gives us a lot of work to do and ask if we are fine with it, we tend to give positive response and keep the negative comment for ourselves. We believe this kind of feedback helps in maintaining good relationship with others. However people are encourage to talk about the dissatisfaction to improve the situation because dissatisfaction is not good for long term. When we talk about it, we can try to solve it and in a way it does help in our relationship development.

Bonus tip: If you intend to talk more on this, don't hesitate to drop your comments down below! Let's listen to each other and don't be shy to finish each other's sentence...that's the FUN part!